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| 20 Jul 2019 06:02 PM
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is if you have to (i.e. a crush that you need to impress, or something like that)
otherwise, don't bother
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| 20 Jul 2019 06:06 PM
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well I am because I actually love my boyfriend and want to spend the rest of my life with him
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| 20 Jul 2019 08:31 PM
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I agree, but also sometimes it's just nice to be loved by someone
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| 21 Jul 2019 03:50 AM
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@chris
"if you have to"
you aren't in a relationship for "fun"
@anaka
yes, but you can still be in a relationship for reasons other than loving them
@Cat
it's nice when you get attention from the people you like, sure
but if you're doing things that would make you happy outside of that, you're going to become less interested over time
and then it will end up making both of you sad
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| 21 Jul 2019 07:25 AM
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"But if you're doing things that would make you happy outside of that"
but you'll only be in that relationship as long as your interests align. if you're doing what makes you happy outside of that relationship, you'll eventually grow apart.
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| 21 Jul 2019 04:41 PM
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@Cat
i think i understood what you were saying wrong and thought you meant it in an ironic way
but yeah, i agree with you on that point
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| 21 Jul 2019 06:19 PM
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"i think i understood what you were saying wrong and thought you meant it in an ironic way"
why do i say that? because you said "if you're doing things that would make you happy outside of that, you're going to become less interested over time"
and i was saying that people are only in relationships as long as their interests align (which means they'd eventually grow apart)
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| 21 Jul 2019 09:03 PM
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oh, you were being serious?
well then i apologize for misinterpreting you
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| 21 Jul 2019 11:07 PM
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"No problem."
yeah sorry about that.
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| 21 Jul 2019 11:13 PM
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I'm in a relationship for the same reason I'm friends with other people: we can talk to each other comfortably.
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