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| 01 Jun 2022 09:23 PM
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He kept on going on about how I was wrong and he was right, which is true because he always thinks he's right. (Which he actually is) But anyway I decided to call him out for being the person that always has to be right.
He got so mad and tried to find evidence to prove me wrong by looking up things on google, he went through my history and saw that I was watching videos on how to build houses, then started to go off on how I am now building a house because I'm bored and wasting money, which is completely false but he still continued to try and prove his point.
So after 30 minutes of arguing he finally decided to leave because he couldn't win this argument no matter what he did.
Now I've lost my best friend because I told him I wasn't wasting money and he doesn't get it, when he wasted over $1000 dollars on a gaming computer when he can do everything he does on a laptop.
I've never really seen him angry before, or even argue like this, I've never heard him yell at someone in such a high pitch voice and I don't think he will ever forgive me for telling him he's wasting his money.
He won't respond to any of my text messages either, I think I've just ruined my friendship with him because I told him he was wasting money.
I never thought I would lose my best friend because I wanted to tell him the truth.
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| 01 Jun 2022 10:05 PM
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It sounds like maybe you two should take a break from talking for a while. Maybe give each other space. Give him time to cool off, and you'll have time to process your own feelings about the situation.
If it is a true friendship, you'll be able to talk about this again eventually. But don't try to force anything right now.
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| 01 Jun 2022 10:06 PM
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Yeah, we haven't talked in 2 days now.
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| 01 Jun 2022 10:08 PM
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I'll try talking to him tomorrow, see if he still wants to be friends or not.
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| 01 Jun 2022 10:10 PM
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It's probably just going to take a bit of time. He needs time to sort through his own feelings and come to terms with what happened.
As long as you're both being kind and supportive of each other, everything will work out. In the meantime, you can use the time to think over your own feelings, too. It might be helpful to have some space so that you have time to do that.
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