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| 23 Jul 2016 01:42 PM
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I'm in a class with this one boy who has been flirting with me for a while. Now, he's made it pretty obvious that he likes me, and I actually kinda like him, too. So I asked him out, and he said yes. But now I'm starting to feel guilty for dating another guy (he was dating a girl before this), and I also feel bad because his best friend is dating my ex-boyfriend. I know this is complicated, but how do I get out of feeling guilty?
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| 23 Jul 2016 01:43 PM
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bad lol
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| 23 Jul 2016 01:46 PM
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I don't know what you've done wrong but if I had your position I would just tell myself "I know I am not making the wrong choice because I have no idea what's going on"
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| 23 Jul 2016 01:51 PM
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@Vitya
Why? What is bad about it?
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| 23 Jul 2016 01:54 PM
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@iinarrow
But I am making the right choice, I think. We are really hitting it off, and we're both really cute.
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| 23 Jul 2016 01:55 PM
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because it makes things complicated
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| 23 Jul 2016 01:56 PM
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@Vitya
It has nothing to do with him dating that girl though. He was already dating her when I made my decision to accept his offer. So why does that make things complicated?
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| 23 Jul 2016 01:59 PM
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i wouldnt feel bad for it
im dating another guy too
and my best friend is dating a girl too
but yeah idk what ur problem is
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| 23 Jul 2016 02:00 PM
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you should've asked the other guy if he was okay with it
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| 23 Jul 2016 02:03 PM
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@Noe
That's not the problem though. You see, my other ex-boyfriend cheated on me. But now this boy is friends with him, so I'm just scared he'll tell him and that will be awkward because I'll have to see him again.
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| 23 Jul 2016 02:07 PM
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then don't hang out with them
or just deal with it
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| 23 Jul 2016 02:08 PM
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@Vitya
I'm dealing with it. I don't know how long it will take him to get over the guilt, but I'm just trying to figure out how to live with the awkward situations in which we'll find ourselves.
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| 23 Jul 2016 02:10 PM
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just tell him "your friend was cheating on me"
and tell your ex "he started dating another girl" (or whatever they are doing)
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| 23 Jul 2016 02:11 PM
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@Vitya
But that's exactly why I'm scared. I can't tell my ex, because then that guy will get mad at him too.
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| 23 Jul 2016 02:13 PM
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so what
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| 23 Jul 2016 02:14 PM
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@Vitya
Because I don't want that to happen. I want us to be friends forever, and I'm pretty sure telling him will ruin our friendship.
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