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| 03 Oct 2015 08:33 AM
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I'm 15, I have no one in my life, but still, everyone is like "I am going to a party with this girl I like, and you're not invited because we're having an awesome time and you're lame" and things like that.
They just don't even notice I don't have a significant other, they only notice that I'm alone and single.
It's so stupid.
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:35 AM
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Also, if they invite their friends over, it's always like "You're not welcome because we are doing some dumb stuff"
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:39 AM
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This isn't just about my age though. It's about the fact that people don't care whether I'm single or not.
It's like "Oh you're single? That's fine. You can come here, I don't care."
But then when they do stuff, all the sudden I become an outcast
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:41 AM
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If you want to be one of them then go ahead
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:43 AM
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The thing is, I don't want to be one of them. I never will be. But this whole social exclusion crap makes me feel depressed.
I feel like everyone is just against me for no reason whatsoever, which makes it even worse.
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:44 AM
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Do something productive then. Focus on the positive instead of the negative
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:45 AM
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I am doing something productive. I'm working on a project for school.
But that doesn't mean I have to stop being depressed over this. If I was depressed, then I wouldn't be able to work on this project.
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:47 AM
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If you're so depressed about not having a girlfriend why don't you try and ask someone out?
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:49 AM
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It's not as if I can ask anyone out. This is the kind of school where you can only talk to people who are in your grade. There is absolutely zero chance of me ever asking anyone out because there are no girls in my grade
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:51 AM
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Then join the high school band or do theater or whatever the hell you want and meet new people
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:52 AM
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I am actually good in school, so that is never going to happen
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:54 AM
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Actually, I'm very smart. But I have trouble with social skills.
I know how to solve complex problems, but I'm just bad when it comes to social interaction.
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:55 AM
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So what? It doesn't matter if you don't have any social life outside of school. Just go out on a date sometime.
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| 03 Oct 2015 08:58 AM
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The only thing is that my parents would probably kill me if I did anything like that.
I can't even imagine telling them I met a girl and asked her out.
They'd be like "Oh no we're getting shot at because you are now dating someone"
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| 03 Oct 2015 09:01 AM
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If they give you that kind of crap then they need to grow up
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| 03 Oct 2015 09:03 AM
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My mom is fine, she isn't strict or anything. She's just super protective over me and doesn't want me going off by myself anywhere in the city.
My dad is crazy though. He is the kind of guy who thinks if his children do something wrong, then the whole world will fall apart and he will lose control over it
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| 03 Oct 2015 09:04 AM
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Then sneak out to the mall and try and meet some girls
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| 03 Oct 2015 09:07 AM
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How would I do that? They always check on me when I'm online.
And no matter what time it is, they check on me in my room.
The only thing I can do is get out of the house during school hours.
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| 03 Oct 2015 09:08 AM
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Well there's nothing else you can do really
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| 03 Oct 2015 09:14 AM
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I guess so.
I feel like there has to be a way of getting around this, but I'm not sure what it is yet.
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| 03 Oct 2015 09:15 AM
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Get out of the house during school hours more often?
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