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| 28 Jun 2018 02:39 AM
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if a girl came up to you and said she wanted to go out with you but you had a gf
what would you do
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:42 AM
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tell her that my girlfriend is hotter than her
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:43 AM
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lol thats what i did
i told her that im in love with my gf and that its just not gonna work out
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:44 AM
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and then you're left alone with a girl you don't even like, who thinks you're interested in her
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:45 AM
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not really
but i dont like being mean so i didnt tell her that
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:46 AM
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"but i dont like being mean"
there's no reason to be mean to somebody who is interested in you
unless you're an absolute idiot, it's better to be honest
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:47 AM
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"but i dont like being mean"
that is the worst way to do it.
if anything it would make it worse because you'd have someone hating on your relationship and making it awkward.
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:48 AM
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"that is the worst way to do it.
if anything it would make it worse because you'd have someone hating on your relationship and making it awkward."
how could that possibly happen when you were not interested in the first place?
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:50 AM
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i just like being a good person
and i dont like hurting peoples feelings even though its hard
because if she did the same thing to me then i would probably feel the exact same way as her right now
so its not worth it
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:51 AM
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@Vleugels
If he told her he didn't like her then she might try to sabotage his relationship with the girl he loves. That's how people are, they act in a vindictive manner if they don't get what they want.
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:52 AM
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"so its not worth it"
the only thing that makes this awkward is that she's interested in you in the first place
but if you're not interested, why bother wasting time telling lies and avoiding her?
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:53 AM
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If he told her he didn't like her then she might try to sabotage his relationship with the girl he loves. That's how people are, they act in a vindictive manner if they don't get what they want.
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People like that are scum, but I've seen it happen before so be on the lookout for it.
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:56 AM
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"People like that are scum, but I've seen it happen before so be on the lookout for it."
not really
people who do that are scum
i'm talking about the type of girl who is interested in you even though you have a girlfriend
if you think that happens, you probably don't know anybody well enough to tell them that you don't like them
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:57 AM
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It happens more often than you think.
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:58 AM
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"more often than you think"
it's happened twice in my life and it's happened once in both of my best friends' lives
that's not "more often than i think"
that's just the same as i think
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:58 AM
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yeah im pretty sure i told her that i was in love with my gf
and she seemed fine with that
but i dont think ill see her again
she moved away
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| 28 Jun 2018 02:59 AM
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I've known quite a lot of girls personally who did that.
More than twice or three times.
The odds are against you if you're not prepared for it to happen.
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| 28 Jun 2018 03:00 AM
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"I've known quite a lot of girls personally who did that."
you do know that i'm talking about the type of person who does this, right?
i'm not talking about everybody who has ever been interested in somebody with a girlfriend
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| 28 Jun 2018 03:01 AM
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@Vleugels
Yeah, but you never know if a girl will be like that. Better safe than sorry.
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| 28 Jun 2018 03:04 AM
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"Better safe than sorry."
yes, it's better to just tell people you don't want them
otherwise, it's just an awkward situation where you'll have to lie to avoid being rude and have to deal with somebody who is interested in you even though you don't care for them
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| 28 Jun 2018 03:06 AM
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oh yeah
also what did you do when you were in love with your gf?
did you date other people during the time you were dating your gf?
did you end up breaking up or is she still your current girlfriend?
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| 28 Jun 2018 04:32 AM
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i dont remember but i think we hadnt really been dating for long
like maybe a week or something?
but i was definitely in love with her
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