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| 25 Sep 2018 01:56 AM
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the most important thing in life is to find a good friend you can rely on, even in your darkest moments.
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| 25 Sep 2018 01:57 AM
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its actually to find a good gf to stick by you through all the hard times
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| 25 Sep 2018 01:58 AM
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yeah, but you need a friend first. if you have a gf and no friends she'll get bored and leave you.
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| 25 Sep 2018 02:01 AM
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true that
but i just had the worst breakup in my life and im currently trying to make up with her and we're kinda getting back together but shes not the same girl anymore
so now i'm forced to look for new gfs and new friends so i dont end up like this again
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| 25 Sep 2018 02:04 AM
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i don't think that's what i meant by a "good friend", though.
you really should make sure it's a healthy relationship. if you're already having problems, you've probably been in an abusive one before.
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| 25 Sep 2018 02:07 AM
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no i never had abuse issues with her, but its the opposite actually
she was
she used to be super clingy and wouldnt let me do anything without her, then she got this job in the summer and suddenly i didn't see much of her because she worked 24/7
then she broke up with me and now she's just weird with me, and i dont know where that's coming from
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| 25 Sep 2018 02:16 AM
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i'm glad your relationship wasn't abusive, but it still sounds like she was acting really controlling before. maybe you should give it some more time, or find someone else you can spend your time with. i'm not saying you need to jump into dating, just be a friend for now.
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| 25 Sep 2018 02:20 AM
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ya i guess thats what i'll do until im sure shes not going to make this same mistake again, which is hard cause i love her so much and i want to fix things
but yea ill probably just find new gfs and friends for now until i get over this
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| 25 Sep 2018 02:22 AM
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you don't have to fix things. it's not your fault that she's changed.
but if you really love her, and she wants to try again, then maybe you should just go for it.
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| 25 Sep 2018 02:24 AM
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well yeah i want to see how this goes
im just not sure what to think about her anymore cause shes different than she used to be
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| 25 Sep 2018 02:26 AM
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yeah, it might take some time to figure her out. but i hope the two of you can work things out.
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